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Being Manipulated?

Updated: Feb 14

Criticism as a Form of Manipulation

Most People have difficulty dealing with criticism because they experience it as a personal rejection. Dealing with criticism as a child, from a adult is a one-down position. When you made a mistake, your elders passed judgement on you: "Thomas, you shouldn't have broken your toy. Bad boy!" You were wrong therefore you were bad. Eventually you learned to feel ashamed whenever you were criticized. This is a very powerful form of manipulation used to teach children to obey or conform. Less damaging ways of instructing children in how to behave include:

1. reinforcing appropriate behavior and ignoring unwanted behavior.

2. pointing out what is wrong with the behavior and suggesting a more desirable alternative behavior.

3. modeling appropriate behavior.

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